I didn’t post last week because I was having too much fun running around to other author’s blogs. Because it was Thanksgiving, most of them were about giving thanks. A thread started running through my mind as I asked myself what I was truly thankful for this years. The biggies were that my son returned from Afghanistan in one piece, mentally and physically. That my husband finally stopped smoking and started paying attention to his health, my mom died over two years ago, but my mother-in-law, whom I love dearly, is still going at 80 years of age. After years of hosting Thanksgiving parties of up to 40 people and cooking for five days straight, we went to a friend’s house this year, had a wonderful time and still had leftovers.
But I’m also thankful and humbled by the wonderful women I’ve met since I started writing romances. To a woman, they are generous of their time and expertise. From my critique groups who challenge me to write better to individuals who have taken their valuable time to help me through my queries, I hate writing queries, and it had to be like pulling hens teeth, and venting. Thank you all. I am a much better writer because of you and when I finally get published you’re all going to be mentioned.
Such a thoughtful post Ella, I am so happy to be a critique partner with you. I love your voice and your characters, and especially the humor. It’s an honor to help you with your novels. I know you will go far in this world with your wonderful stories!
Cheers!
Lauren
I agree with you! The women I’ve become friends with in this writing world are priceless! I have learned so much!
I couldn’t agree more. The best part of being a writer is all of the support and encouragement you receive from others. Romance writers are the best!
It’s a wonderfully supportive world!!!
Such a gracious post, Ella. But then I’m not surprised by that at all! You have so much to be thankful for. We all do, and it’s a shame our world is so hectic we often lose sight of those things in our lives that mean the most.
You’re right, the ladies (and some gents) in the Romance circles are just the best! I’m sure you’ll be penning those acknowledgments in no time!
Loved your post, Ella. Keep plugging away, and you’ll make it. Glad your son came home in one peace. That’s truly something to be thankful for.
Callie
It’s been a pleasure meeting you, too, Ella. Look forward to reading more of your stuff.
Everyone I’ve met since I began writing has been more than generous with their time to help me along. Thanks so much for being part of the circle, Ella. Looking forward to working with you. 🙂
Beautiful post. Cps and writer friends make a world of a difference. I too am very grateful.
What a lovely post. I too am so thankful for each and every member of our critique group! They are all so supportive and wonderful. 🙂
The writers I’ve met are my best friends.
It’s the glue that keeps me together.
Nice post.
Writers are amazingly helpful people, aren’t they?
I love the writing community and particularly romance. I was clueless when I came aboard and everyone was so great at pointing me to learning venues and crit groups and just so sweet. Along side my family I have come to love my cyber friends and some who I’ve met in person this year. I met two of my publishers and sister and brother authors. It was fantastic! Great blog post 😛
Having just lost my husband I can say nothing eases the hurt like the ones in the writing arena. They all have wished me condolences, prayers, cyber hugs and offers of help despite their varied distances. I even had several authors post comments on facebook with their support and love. So the writing community is great.
I was so sorry to hear about you husband. If there is anything I can do, Let me know.
You are as much a blessing to the group as the group is to you, Ella ! So happy to hear of your son’s return and your DH’s kicking the habit ! My Mom is 76 and going strong. She wears ME out!
The writing community is full of generous, witty and insightful people. It’s always nice to know you aren’t on the “Crazy Train” alone!
Your post is encouraging to a newbie to the romance genre. I’ve yet to meet other writers, I don’t have a critique partner yet, nor am I a member of a critique group. I guess I just need to be at the right place at the right time.
I, too, am glad your son came home safe and sound.
Have a grand day!
Isabella,
Are you writing romance?
Ella
Ella…yes I am writing romance. I have a short story and a book in the works. The short story takes place in Tudor England and the book a Regency romance.
so thankful your son is home!