House parties were Polite Society’s entertaining themselves when not in Town for a Season. They were usually held in the summer and winter. They could be as short or long as the hostess wished. Although, a house party would probably not be shorter than a week or two if only because people had to travel, sometimes great distances, to get there.
Only the imagination limited what kind of house party it would be. There were hunting parties, parties where a mother or guardian would not wish a young lady to attend, house parties to which young ladies and eligible gentlemen were invited. There would almost always be an equal number of ladies and gentlemen. A single gentleman could only give a house party (or any entertainment) of gently bred mixed company (as opposed to a more ribald party of mixed company) if he had a hostess. The hostess could be his mother, sister, sister-in-law, aunt, grandmother, etc.
Arrangements would have to be made for the servants who accompanied the guests. They would vary in number but would most likely include, coachman, groom, outriders, valet and/or lady’s maid. Children in the schoolroom or nursery were not invited unless the lady hosting the party had children and wanted to make a point of getting them together. For example, a family gathering.
The hostess would arrange entertainment for her guests. Some of what could be offered depended on the season or what features the estate had to offer. Options included, rowing, fishing, shooting, archery, visits to historical sites, riding, visiting the nearest town or village, card and other games and a lot I’ve forgotten. For entertainments such as a ball or dances, the hostess would most likely invite any of the surrounding gentry or aristocrats.
House parties were known for people sneaking around during the night to someone else’s bedchamber. A mother of a young lady would have to be very vigilant.
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Ella:
Thank you for this post. I’m in the middle of a trilogy novella series where the event takes place at a House Party and a Ball. Each is standalone but the central theme, and a fourth book is an anthology a Christmas Party at an estate.
SO THE TIMING IS PERFECT. I hope one day you will put this in a compendium type book.
Best regards,
I’ve written an email to you that this subject is timely for me with a trilogy and an anthology participation involving House Parties/Ball at an estate. Thoroughly enjoying these trivia tidbits that are so important. Thank you. Sandra Masters
You’re welcome, Sandra!
House parties are always one of my favorite things to read about in Regency novels. Thanks for giving them authentication.
My pleasure!!
I needed to know this! Thank you, Ella!
Thank you, Angelyn!!